For two · Partnered TTC

Two people, one shared dream.

When you're trying with a partner, there's an extra layer beyond the biology, things like the communication, expectation-setting, navigating the months that don't go to plan together. Here's the path most partnered couples take.

Where to start

The first 90 days.

If you're a couple who can conceive together biologically, the simplest, most evidence-backed start is this:
  • Both start preconception nutritionEspecially methylfolate for her, plus zinc and CoQ10 for him. Sperm forms over ~74 days.
  • Stop guessing your cycleOne full cycle of OPKs tells you more than three months of “trying when it feels right.”
  • Aim for natural insemination every 1-2 days in the fertile windowNot daily. Not weekly. Consistent through your six-day window.
  • Have the time-limit conversation“If we're not pregnant by X months, we'll go see the GP.” Decide it now, before the emotional pressure shows up.
When it's harder than expected

What “trying” actually looks like over time.

About 80% of healthy under-35 couples conceive within a year. Which means about 20% don't and that's not failure. It's a signal that the next step might be a conversation with a GP, or a different method.

Under 35

If you've tried for 12 months

Time to see your GP and get the standard fertility workup for both of you. Most can be requested directly by your GP in AU.

35 or older

If you've tried for 6 months

Same - GP, blood tests, semen analysis. The 6-month threshold matters because timelines shorten with age.

Anytime

If something feels off

Cycles missing, severe pain, unusual bleeding; don't wait for a 6 or 12 month threshold. Get checked immediately.

The quiet thing nobody tells couples about TTC: most of the work is talking honestly with each other while waiting.